Love could be a bouquet of roses, but marriage is an altogether different game. It isn?t a bed or roses as wisely said, but it is a relationship where a man compromises on his ego, self-respect and ultimately loses his individuality just to save the relationship. There also seems to be misconception floating around the society that the wives are always better genre than the husbands, and that there is always a woman behind a successful man. It would be ideal if it is rephrased as ? ?women are always AFTER successful men, and not behind.?
The first three months of the marital life is always the best. Later, women start showing their true natural colours other than pink. Now the whole purpose of their existence happens just to tame the men, and enslave them. And if the man tries to be stubborn in changing, here are few stunts wives usually play to get their things done.
Stunt 1) Blackmail you of leaving to her parents? place & never come back
How to handle it: Never ever make her feel that her presence is important for your happiness. Just make it very clear that, she is just an attachment, and if need be you can always detach and attach someone else. And also don?t ask her when she is coming back, and lastly don?t call her over the phone or pick the phone if she calls you.
Stunt 2) Will lock herself in a room & create panic
How to handle it: Men usually panic a lot if a woman shuts herself in a room when she is angry. The fear is ? she might end up doing something nasty ? to the extent of committing suicide. Don?t try to break open the door this will only make her feel good. Just open the main door, start your bike, and walk out of your house. You can come back after 2-3 hours ? your dinner will be ready.
Stunt 3) Will try to use your desperation to her benefit
How to handle it: Any social system thinks that sex is important only for men and that women are born saints! Wives are completely aware about how important sex is for their better halves, and they always try to snatch this opportunity to get their things done. Most of their request petitions comes to fore in the bedroom, that too when the man is desperately seeking sex. It is always hard to say NO when a simple YES can get you a marathon session.
To avoid this, just make a rule that none of the partner will open their mouth to TALK once the light is put off!
Don?t ever think that your wife is always right, and that your partner is doing some kind of favour living with you. Remember she chose you because she didn?t get anyone better and this makes you unique and important. Also don?t try to be too nice just to save the relationship. Be honest, truthful and stick to dharma, and if she still want to leave?just let her go, you always have Bangkok to your rescue!